So I hope y'all don't mind if I rant.... I'm sick of my SO and his attitude. One up from 2-6 every night with our daughter. He gets up and leaves for work at 6:30. I maybe sleep from 7-7:30 but Aubrie wakes up and wants to stay up. So I don't get much sleep. When he comes home from work I kinda just pass our daughter off to him because by then I'm exhusted and lately I've had a migraine that has lasted all week. He gives me attitude because I don't do anything when he comes home. He acts like his job is harder then mine... HE CUTS GRASS FOR A LIVING. I'm a mom and a health and fitness coach for beach body. I'm doing two things at once daily. He doesn't make me feel like I'm doing enough for us.
Don't cook or clean lol then he will see how much you do. But unfortunately society makes it look like we are to do it all . Try talking to him and saying you need like a hr when he gets home to just breathe or lay down. Let him come home shower(if needed) and then take baby. It's what being a mama is though not a lot guys can do especially if breastfeeding. @samielynnrambeau hang in there
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Locking your doors
We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
Okay, mommas I need to vent to someone please..
So my fiance goes to his Co workers house (female) at 1:30pm to leave for work, they work about 55 mins from home.. she doesn't have to be there till 3pm.. and he doesn't have to start till 4pm... they usually get off at 1:30am. Now they moved it to 2:00am.. (what he says.) He doesn't get home till 4:00am.... am I wrong for wondering why it takes so long for him to get home??? I want to mention something but I know he will get real defensive about...
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleep...
Thanks @hlanc4