So I live with my s/o and his grandparents. Today I was on Facebook asking for ideas on how to calm my daughter because I had tried everything I could think of and nothing was soothing her. Well she was on the computer and saw that I posted that I can't let her cry in her crib because I will get nasty comments and looks from her. She flips out on me, calls me a lazy ass bitch and a horrible mother. God I want out of here. All I ever do is cook and clean for her and she still doesn't respect me.