what's the fucking point in me having the title of "mother ". it's not like I'm getting a chance to bond with my fucking son. because everyone else feels the need to do it for me even when I say no. I'm fucking sick of EVERYTHING right now. y'all are driving my son to not even know who the hell I am because you can't keep your greedy hands through fuck off him. he's almost 3 weeks old and I've yet to get a single solid day with him. and all y'all do is hog him then shove him off to me when it's time for you to go to bed so i have to bare the burden of waking up every 3 hours to care for him.
I can't handle this shit anymore...
smack their hands everytime they try to get him from you and say NO maybe if you treat them like adults they might learn. So sorry you are going through this
your boyfriend gets mad.... um, who cares?? he'll get over it. no one is making you do anything, you have the power in you to say "no", or to tell people to come back another time.... I believe in you. stand up for yourself and your baby. you are in control of your life.
and I don't want their help. they help way too much and don't let us learn how to do stuff on our own.
@sumria, it's too late. I'm already getting early signs of it. and they see it and still do what they do. they literally walk up to me and just take him out my hands like they're his and I always say something and then my boyfriend gets mad at me bc I'm being rude with his family. I'm tired of not being able to bond with my fucking baby...
so next time you get a moment with your son, go to your room and lock the door. itbdoeent matter if you live with them, he is your son and they have no right to constantly take him from you.
his family just doesn't care what I say. they do what they please. it's bad enough we fucking live with them @arijane316 @sumria @karnamarie
☝☝☝☝what she said. he's your son, not theirs. say "I don't give a shit if you want to hold him, I said no and I mean it"
thats how my mnl is lawddd but now she is very helpful cus it can ware u out at least for me...