Question: So my guy said he was talking to his friends fiancée (totally okay with it because they all have been a group of friends for a long time) but I go on his phone and see absolutely no conversation with her of any sort on any social media or text. Should I be worried? I mean I am, since he is ALWAYS talking about some other girl rather than me (co workers, his friends fiancee) anyone but me. I'm just nervous because I feel disgusting. And I feel like he looks at me like I'm just some fat bitch now..I try talking to him, but nothing ever gets done (I don't go at him accusingly ) I never post stuff like this, but I'm so depressed now..idk what to do.
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Thanks, and yeah I've considered adoption heavily but he says if I do that he will just adopt it. I feel like further down the road I will develop feelings for the baby. Thanks, we'll see what happens. It's no joke about these pregnancy hormones
thankfully I figured it out, and im happy to say he wasn't up to anything. I'd say if you guys wouldn't want to keep your baby, you can consider adoption, not like giving your baby up at the hospital, but to a family of your choice. @sarabhh93 I have a friend who did that. and I'm sorry you had to deal with that.
I feel you. I feel disgusting and have no sex drive either. Last night I had a bad feeling my fiancé was up to something. I have always trusted him and we have a great realtionship. Last night he wanted to go to the bars with friends and I didn't mind staying home since I was so tired. I sort of wanted him to stay with me since I have felt depressed lately but I wanted him to be able to have fun with his friends too. Anyway, he came home wasted at 3am. I checked his phone in the morning and he had been texting an ex girlfriend while at the bar. I woke his drunk ass up and confronted him and he broke down. He said he's been so stressed about the baby and needed someone to talk to. I called BS and I had to work this morning while he sleeps at home. I basicley told him that I feel like this has destroyed our partnership and that I feel like I lost my best friend this morning. I'm still contemplating my next move but I know I will probably stay with him considering the situation I am in. Neither one of us are really wanting this baby but he was against the idea of abortion completly. I would say just trust you gut. Hope everything works out
Glad you figured it out! I would say if he's talking to you about other girls all the time then he's not hiding stuff from you! Which is great! 😊