My boyfriend is against breastfeeding in public even if I have cover. I told him I wanted to do skin to skin after the babys born and he said no because he didn't want me naked in front of anyone. I said he'd be under my gown. and he said no because my boob can pop out. he also said I'm not allowed to feed my baby if there's a nurse in the room. and I told him they're gonna see my freaking vagina!! who cares about my boobs. it's also not their first time. I'm so annoyed. because if my baby is hungry, I want to feed him when he wants it. I'm gonna have a nursing cover when we go out.
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@aidensmommy, okay.. I grew up being told to dress modestly but that didn't mean floor length skirts or no shorts just not to show off your body with what you wear.. But I will say we went on a mission trip to Mexico in high school and were told we had to wear long skirts so I guess that makes sense
@hkatedavis, I don't see a problem with feeding my baby too. His church is like a Mexican Christian Church. all the girls have to wear skirts that touch the floor. the guys and girls aren't allowed to sit by each other during church. I don't wear shorts that short enough to see my butt. some I have are knee length but he still doesn't approve.
Breast feeding is the most natural thing you can do. I don't see the problem with it at all.. In public or anywhere. And the nurses will have seen everything already anyway. Also I am Christian as well but I've never herd of the no shorts or no breast feeding or any of that. I understand if it's modesty but no shorts at all? Just get ones where your butt doesn't hang out and your good.. Just my opinion.. But it's your choice how to feed your baby
Ohhhh he's one of the old age Christians that's in their strict beliefs and always throwing religion on ppl. I know the type. I'm Catholic as well but not strict and my SO studies Christian beliefs but was never baptized. Our child will have the choice to chose as well. I wouldn't force a religion upon anyway. I wonder what made him concert so hard if you say his mom isn't even like that because normally it's the parents that turn their children the way he's acting..?
@aidensmommy, guys will look at your ass no matter what your wearing lol.
@stephhhx3 I was baptized Catholic but my mom raised us Christian when she got baptized Christian. He is Christian but the church he goes to is really strict. My Christian Church isn't as strict as his. But we're going to let our son grow up and choose the religion he wants to be baptized as.
@growingphoenix he's Christian but strict Christian. And I agree! I'm going to feed him either way.
@bqueen I agree ! I still wear them but he gives me shit for them. he says "when you wear shorts, you're giving other guys the okay to look at your ass." it's so annoying.
Your boyfriend doesn't allow you to wear shorts?..Who is he your mother? Lol I'm sorry but it's not always gonna be his way sometimes you have to put your foot down and tell him that you're a person and you can make your own decisions... Boyfriends shouldn't act like dictators not even husbands can be doing that.. They should be there to support in a any decision you wish to make. Just my opinion.. Hope it all works out for you and the baby 😊
What is his religion? My boyfriend is also against breast feeding in public but if my child has to eat idgaf who has something to say, I'll have a nursing cover! They'll get over it.
@aidensmommy, obv your not the same religion? You guys need to find some kind of neutral ground. Esp with how your baby will be raised. 🙁
@vb95, his mom is no longer apart of their religion because of her life choices and with that he thinks she's going to hell. it's so annoying. I don't want my son growing up that way he thinks.
@aidensmommy, the nurses will help regardless to make sure your baby is getting fed and latch go right hopefully. & if he's a believer of woman not showing off there bodies in any way he should be a believer in naturally feeding a baby(: lol
Girl yes! @stephhhx3 I had nurses pulling my boobs out too trying to get my son to latch! There will be tons of nurses up in your business @aidensmommy if it's religion how did his mom do all this laboring??
@stephhhx3, yeah that's another thing. I want to be able to get help from a nurse if I can't get him to latch but I already know he'd get mad if I asked.
@reznor, I told him I'm going to do it and I don't want him ruining my experience.
@vb95 his religion. he doesn't think it's okay for a female to show off her body in anyway. I'm not even allowed to wear shorts even if they're knee length lol.
@coey247 yes exactly! and I'm not going to feed my baby in the bathroom.
Just seems like he's got some insecurities. When I was in the hospital nurses were legit grabbing my boobs to help my son latch lol. Nurses were always down there checking my lady parts. If your breastfeeding you should be able to feed your child whenever however when they are hungry! Put your foot down. He's being ridiculous.
I don't care where I am Boobs coming out. My baby doesn't deserve to have to wait . To each there own. And honestly it should be up to you to cover up not his. You are the one feeding ur tiny. I do respect ur decision to cover up.
That's ridiculous, he'll let you pull a boob out when your baby is screaming because their hungry lol. Did he say his reasoning? @aidensmommy
I think it's going to come down to you putting your foot down. but that's ridiculous honestly.
@vb95, I've tried and he doesn't want to listen to me. and yes, nothing against the moms who don't use covers I'm just not comfortable doing it like that lol so I will always have a nursing cover. and he still says I can't do that.
Idk, maybe try to educate him a little more on it? I'm not sexist but I'm sure you're going to have all girl nurses anyways, so I don't see the issue? @aidensmommy
@vb95, lol right! that's what I told him. I don't understand why he's so against it.
That's a little extreme.. You're giving birth, everyone is going to see all of you lol. Skin to skin is important after giving birth, and breastfeeding when nurses aren't in there? How are you supposed to manage that if your baby is hungry during that time
I was Apostolic (from your description that's what it sounds like) and the church would never consider feeding your child immodest. how about you talk to his pastor because his spirit is ugly and I guarantee your pastor can get to the bottom of it and clarify what is considered immodest or not.