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Alexandra McMillan
Alexandra McMillan
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What is with guys when they're tired? I could get half the sleep as him and he falls asleep all day…

What is with guys when they're tired? I could get half the sleep as him and he falls asleep all day while I am fully functional, caring for our daughter all day every day. Our daughter had a stomach bug and he KNOWS we gotta go down and handle getting our insurance done today, and yet I go to take a damn #2 because I can't even do THAT without baby girl screaming and him yelling for me cuz he doesn't know how to calm her....I get back after being gone maybe 5 to 10 mins, and he's asleep on the chair and baby girl is in the kitchen chewing on EGG SHELLS she got outta the trash. I told him he better help me get the paperwork gathered, especially now that our 7 month old could be exposed to salmonella from the RAW EGGS FROM THE TRASH. Fuck, I mean I love and respect that he works but that doesn't mean he isn't a goddamn parent too! I can't even trust him to watch her for 10 mins and I haven't showered in like 3 days 😭 FML!

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karnamarie

Karna Marie

Мама двоих (младенец)

I would be throwing the biggest bitch fit you have ever seen....

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hellosweetie

Alexandra McMillan

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I came in and freaked and dug it out her mouth and told him wtf was he not watching her and then left the room to clean her up...came back in and told him to help my ass get ready cuz we NEED insurance now that she can get salmonella. I wanted to guilt him without making him feel like a complete piece of shit....I hope he realizes how serious this can be, and how unfair it is that I can't even trust him to watch OUR daughter...I haven't had more than an hour to myself since she was born....@karnamarie,

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mrzhyde

Christina

Мама сына-младенца

Oh my gosh! My husband isn't that bad, but he is the biggest baby when he doesn't have enough sleep. He gets so bitchy and complains so much without sleep. And I have been taking care of our son for like five days straight without a break because he had bronchitis! Ugh. Men are such babies. @hellosweetie

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Alexandra McMillan

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

They are, he always complains about being tired even if he gets to sleep for 8 hours (our girl sleeps through the night but often times I can't sleep or she grumps and it wakes me up or I have to close the window because it's cold etc )....and then he falls asleep whenever he sits without talking for too long, I did NOT think he would fall asleep while he was watching her, though 😡 I know I should be more sympathetic to him because he works but HE should be able to keep himself awake for our daughter's safety! @mrzhyde

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mrzhyde

Christina

Мама сына-младенца

Oh I have the same problem when it comes to sleeping. Some times I stay awake to make sure our baby boy is breathing okay! And my husband is the same way. While he was sick he slept for like 12 hours straight! And still complained about feeling tired! I didn't even get a nap. My baby isn't big enough to get into the trash yet, but I would expect my hubby to be able to stay awake for 20 mins while I got ready. So I feel you, it hasn't happened but it could. And my hubby works too, but even a SAHM needs a break now and then. If I couldn't trust my hubby I'd pack my things and go to my mothers for like a week! Not to leave him, but to give him his time to sleep since it seems like they never get enough. @hellosweetie

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Alexandra McMillan

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I would do that, but we live alone in AZ, just the two of us...so I'm sticking eith guilting him lol right now I'm pissed because we managed to lose our copy of our rental agreement and can't sign up for the help we need without it 😑 @mrzhyde

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missing234user

missing234user

Take her to the restroom with u lol put her on a baby chair or something. I do that sometimes when im alone with LO

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mrzhyde

Christina

Мама сына-младенца

Oh dang! That sucks, well I hopefully you can get out every once in a while to make some friends or something. Oh no! Hopefully you can find your paperwork! I hate when stuff like that happens. But the rental company should be able to make copies. 👍 @hellosweetie

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amaresmama

Ashley

ugh I hope he gets it together! hopefully you can get your insurance soon honey

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hellosweetie

Alexandra McMillan

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Thanks so much mamas, @jgarciamua I totally take her everywhere with me when he's not home, but I get mad cuz I shouldn't have to when he's here, she has two parents dammit LOL @amaresmama @mrzhyde thank you, I hope I can find friends out here, so far nothin lol...and we called the insurance company and they got the application started for us and will let us know by tomorrow what exactly we are eligible for! Whoohoo!!! Hopefully we don't gotta use it any time soon lol

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missing234user

missing234user

Thats true! But if u don't trust him then u should take her to the restroom with u lol

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mrzhyde

Christina

Мама сына-младенца

Oh good I'm glad you got things settled with your insurance! And when baby girl gets bigger then you can take her to places like the park and stuff and hopefully meet more mommies in your area!

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Alexandra McMillan

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Thanks, I sure hope so! @mrzhyde

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