so my ex is back in the area after being in Arkansas for 5 months. hasn't been to a doctors appointment with me. still hates the name I've chosen to name my son and thinks that because he is back in town he gets to waltz back into this and name my son and take him from me. hasn't offered to help in any way. hasn't even thought to maybe get his son something. all he has done is try to get out of this responsibility. claiming I'm a whore and the baby isn't his. it was my God given luck the first time I have sex the condom breaks. so yes now I'm a whore because he is afraid to step up. this guy is really pissing me off with his incisiveness.
You can do this you don't need a man you sound like a strong mama hang in there!!!!
@sierranichols, @babes87101116 thank you. he can't make up his mind on what it is he wants. I've been nice and friendly letting him know how doctors appointments go when they are, even when I found out its a boy. it never fails he gets angry because I don't want to name my son after his brother. his brother was my best friend but he lived his life why try to make it like he never left? his brother was special and always have a special place in our hearts and I'm sure his brother understands my reasoning. I've always wanted a son named Timothy. I was willing to compromise but the way things are going I'm going with my first choice.
Cut him off and make sure you don't put him on the birth certificate
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Tired of arguing with BD over baby names. Every time we discuss names he feels like he has the final say so in naming our son....he wants to name him Lion......I hate that name for obvious reasons (Come the hell on dude....LION....seriously?!?!?! 😤) I'm stuck between 2 names Jaydyn or Josiah. I want my son to have a name that he'll be proud to put on a resume or that he won't get denied a job over. But his father and I clash every time his name is brought up. I'm 4 weeks away from my due date an...
Hi,my name is Kseniia, i'm from Siberia. Used to stady in China, but i'm back to my hometown now
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
You focus on you and that baby do not put him on the birth certificate and if he wants rights after he'll have to take a paternity test and go to court document all the negative he says to you. You'll be fine.