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Slight rant. Had my baby shower yesterday. Turned out to be a huge success which was completely unexpected. I didn't…

Slight rant.

Had my baby shower yesterday. Turned out to be a huge success which was completely unexpected. I didn't invite many people (I'm an introvert and don't talk to many people) but my MIL who threw it invited people from my husbands side of the family who ALL showed up.

Anyway, I was supposed to have lunch with my sister before the shower. She lives in Atlanta an hour away. She was supposed to show up at 11:30. Called at 11:45 cause I hadn't heard from her and she's still at home...sleeping. But she'll be at the shower. Well, guess who never showed up to the shower either. I'm not really mad as much as I am disappointed because for some reason I wasn't even surprised. I have a brother who I haven't talked to or seen since I told him I was pregnant (forced to do so over texting because he wouldn't take my phone call) he flat out said he wasn't coming because of his job schedule that he wouldn't bother to try to change. I'm the youngest out of us three and just wish I had more support from my own siblings.

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codysmommy16

CassidyВ ожидании первенца

Yeah my brother and sister are the same way!

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taylor86

KrystalВ ожидании первенца

Girl been there! One of my younger brothers said they weren't coming because my little sister heard me tell my older sister I didn't want them there 🙄... Lies. He's never supported me.... And now that I'm pass due he's been texting me non stop! Him and my little sister never really reached out this whole pregnancy so I've just learned to distance myself from them. One day at a time love, you'll get through it believe me! Soon you'll just start to focus on being the best mom you can be for your little one! 💙❣

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