RANT
Uuughhhh so my dad is upset with me because I sent him and my other parent an email saying that my son has an upper respiratory infection and that I'm going to be very picky about who can and can't hold him (I personally don't think a baby needs to be passed around anyway) so I tell my dad that the doctor said him holding him shouldn't be a problem as long as he hasn't smoked at all since taking a shower and putting on clean clothes. Wellll apparently he feels I singled him out because I told him I asked the doctor specifically about him. Well first of all the people (my friends and their parents) who I said could hold the baby don't smoke and secondly the other people that smoke are YOUR friends. So why should I feel the need to ask my sons doctor if my dads smoker friends should be able to hold him 😑😑 like if you smoke you can't hold him at all. The only reason I asked about you holding him is because you're my dad and his grandfather so naturally I would let you hold him as long as you haven't been smoking. Yet I singled him out. Ugh oh well I'm tired of him always telling me what to do and how to do it. Most of the time I ignore it but I'm not a child anymore and this is my son and he is my responsibility! Ugh I'm supper excited for my trip on Monday but it's going to be a long 2 weeks 😑
Rant over.
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your baby your rules. I'm sure he'd much rather his grandson be healthy even if that means not holding him for a while. he might be mad at first but he'll look back and respect your opinion and the baby's health well over his feelings. you'll also look back and be way happier knowing you made the right choice for your baby's health over caving in to make your dad happy
Thank you!! Right now we know she's as least a carrier. We are hoping that's it, but won't know until the test next week. But like really? You know she could be REALLY sick, and you can't stop, wtf?
@twinmommy2016, ugh I know right?? Like you can't even stop for a couple hours?? His response is I know how to be around a baby.. Um clearly you don't. 😑 sorry to hear about your baby girl though! I pray everything works out for her 🙏🏾
I completely get it!! We are waiting for my daughter to have a diagnosis confirmation for cystic fibrosis. My dad refuses to stop smoking or at least make sure my girls aren't around it and his clothes, hair, and body are clean from it. It's so infuriating!!
@twinmommy2016, thank you!