Do you think it is "bitchy" to not want everyone holding your newborn? I'm not crazy about the idea of everyone rushing in right after he's born and demanding to hold him. My husband gets all angry when I say I want time for the two of us to bond with the baby before everyone gets to hold him. I don't even really see the point in everyone visiting you in the hospital when you only stay over night! Its got me stressed out! 😰😰😰