I'm as girly as they come and am terrified to lose a bond between a son. I don't enjoy boy things lol. I really am scared to have 2 boys and no girls. I cry when I think I'll never get to go wedding dress shopping and things like that.. but then I don't know if I can see my husband with a girl lol so I think God is trying to save our family so I don't get angry with him lol!

@yarika, yes that's scary I know cause ultimately I left my sons father before he was 1. Not cause he did any thing wrong but cause I was young dumb and bored. Before my hubby it was hard especially after he turned 13. So I understand your fears. But don't let that discourage you like @twins1987 said believe God gave you a boy for a reason. But for now i really feel it's your hormones you'll get pass it. I was horrified when I found out I was pregnant with my SECOND set of twins. Making it babies 4 and 5. I didn't want them at all but don't believe in abortion and would never consider adoption I wouldn't be able to sleep knowing apart of me was out walking this earth and not in my life. However the point is it took me until about 22/23 weeks into my pregnancy I decided to accept them and started to feel an attachment to them. It was after the ultrasound that I found out they were girls that I did a lot of prayer and soul searching. And I said to myself, girl ready or not here they come, a piece of you. And eventually I came out that funk. I love my luv bugs to death like the rest. OAN: I can't believe they're about to be big sisters. 👯

you don't really get over it tbh you just kinda get used to it. I didn't want kids and this pregnancy was a surprised so all I wanted was a girl then but I'm having a little boy and he is very healthy which I am so grateful for but I still get upset when I hear someone I know is having a girl

@izamarpink, yeah that might be what it is that my first was a girl and I had such a wonderful life having a girl that I couldn't see my second child any other way. I was trying to buy some clothes to just let it sit in that it's really a boy

@goodcp16, yeah I'm glad you can totally connect with me. Like I'm happy my baby is ok even it's not what I wanted. I did my registry and cried the whole time cause when I started it I put girl stuff on there cause I just had that known feeling it was a girl. I feel even bad for my daughter because she wanted a sister. When I told her it was a boy, she cried and said no mommy this is wrong. 😞

yeah I understand completely

I do understand your disappointment though.

@mamix3_, yeah I should be grateful my first was a girl that was what I wanted too. I need to start thanking God more that my baby is healthy for the most part. It's just a disappointment process I gotta get over ya kno?

@towens921, yes I have a 4 yr girl I just wanted another one. I never wanted a son. @alainalovesmommy don't fwt me wrong I love my son simply because he's my child but I just wasn't prepared for a boy ya know? @jamielynn07 that's why I'm saying I'm being ungrateful because I do have a girl already

as long as you have a happy and healthy baby that should be all worried about hun.....maybe next time you'll get your girl. Boys are always mommy boys you will have a special bond with him that no one else will have. Be blessed!

@yarika, yes he will make a way I'm praying for u hun

@baby6aryn if his dad was involved I might be a little more settled with the fact that it's s not. But like this entire pregnancy he's ditched me, he couldn't even make it to the ultrasound for goodness sake. You know it's scary thinking I'll have to raise a boy alone.

@jirahmiddleton, yeah it's like I was so sure it was a girl just like my first 4 yr daughter I knew she was a girl n we have an impeccable bond. I want to have that with my son but I feel like since finding out its a boy I feel distance from him

@twins1987, trust me I know that. I'm a firm believer in God I just didn't want a son I'm scared to raise a boy alone because a women can't teach a boy how to be a man? You know? But I know God will make a way...guessing I'm just scared.

@roxy.xoxo, yes I hope so