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jovan

I'm slightly annoyed. my due date is Monday and ppl keep telling me I need to induce in some manner. my baby and I are…

I'm slightly annoyed. my due date is Monday and ppl keep telling me I need to induce in some manner. my baby and I are both in perfect health. wtf is the point of rushing him out? like stfu and leave me alone. he'll come when he's ready

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maddiecakes2011

NicoleМама дочки (5 лет)

@sperdue22, s is right. I was induced at 41 wks and in labor 26 hrs and had to have a csection bc my body wasn't 'responding well' to the inducing drugs they were giving me. I wouldn't dilated quick enough for them I suppose. I'm js from my experience I won't be induced again. lol

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jojo411

jovan

wow. I'm definitely not into getting induced

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sperdue22

stephanie

@jojo411,

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sperdue22

stephanie

when you induce you may be in labor for days. Some people only a few hours, but it all depends. They use lost of drugs to induce you for one and if natural is what you want you may not like inducing unless you have to for the babies health.

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jojo411

jovan

@maddiecakes2011, what sucks about it? @sperdue22 wow! lol

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sperdue22

stephanie

well the longest birth on record is about a year and I think a month. ...... @jojo411, lolz something to cheer you up. so take your time the baby will come one way or the other.

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maddiecakes2011

NicoleМама дочки (5 лет)

@jojo411, pol always have an opinion! btw induction sucks!!

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jojo411

jovan

@miicat, thank you :) my husband says the same thing. it's mainly my mom. like why rush? it's so frustrating. she wants me to get a vaginal exam but my midwife said that it can cause infection, early delivery and hurts. she doesn't want to do it unless she needs to like if I'm late. I agree with her. I wanna be as natural as I can be.

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miicat

MelodieВ ожидании первенца

Go with your gut you know your body and baby best and I know it can be irritating, but everyone is just trying to help from their own perspective so there's no need to take it personally. You go and do your thing I believe in you 😊

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jojo411

jovan

I get that but I'm not there yet. I still have 1 week and 5 days for that

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mama_icie

AshleyМногодетная мама (5 детей)

if he stays in over 41 weeks it can be dangerous

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