Rant: I'm so over it!!! my SO just said to me that if I go into labor the weekends we have the kids that if I want him at the hospital the kids will be there too.. for 1 a hospital is no place for a 5,3,and 18month old! 2. I said no and he got mad there is no reason to get mad because I don't want 3 screaming unoccupied kids in the room while I'm laboring or delivering a baby.. and if they are occupied they will be by him and I need him to help me with the laboring positions, but he also wants me to get an epidural which I've told him I'm going to try my hardest not to get and he keeps pushing it on me.. so I say fuck it if you can't accept my wishes then stay at home with your 3 other kids and miss another birth! he's made it clear more then once that "this one child can't replace the other 3" I've never asked for our son to replace his kids I just asked for our son to seem at least as important as the other ones but fuck it I'll go through labor like I did most of the pregnancy . ALONE!
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@arijane316, I figured as much, which means he won't be able to be in the room for delivery if he doesn't call someone to watch them.. he doesn't want to hear this from me though.. he took me saying I don't want them there as me not wanting to be around the kids... I'll admit they are little hellyans but it's because their mother doesn't have any rules.
@auuuribs, yeah I don't doubt it sucks but the reward is amazing, and I've kept an open mind to getting drugs to help, because it is my first, but I'd like to say I tried fully before I caved..
He has no right to tell you what to do with childbirth. How annoying. Well, labor does suck, and suck bad. I'll tell you that much. I hope everything works out. ❤️❤️❤️
@snowbaby313, that's what I figured, but I don't know all the rules at this particular hospital I live in a fairly small area they allow a lot of things other hospitals dont.. and @auuuribs too bad I already married him he isn't usually like this, but he thinks he knows it all because he has 3 kids, and because it's my first I should be more open. and I am open if the pain gets unbearable I will leave the option to fold and get the epidural but the kids is my main issue the youngest doesn't even overly come to him she is stuck to my hip while she is here all the time, and I won't handed that we'll in labor I don't want to ruin what I have with the kids because I'm in pain and snap at them.
@manzo2, he wouldn't be able to because the oldest is in school and he is only home for 21 days (3 weekends with them).. and their mom refuses to be flexible and tried to make what the court set a lot more strict then what it actually is.. plus he has family here that could come watch them but he won't call them so that he doesn't have to bring them up to the hospital and he could still go hang out with them because I'm sure I'll be in labor for a while.
So....sounds like you need to really need to reevaluate this relationship. He sounds controlling and selfish.
The hospital will not allow a child who is biologically not yours to be in the room with you during labor!
cant he adjust his weekend incase u do go into labor on weekend. talk to the mother of the kids about how he can get them after all the labor n delivery has happened.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
What do you think???? I know that I over reacting but me and the father of my kids are not in good terms.. I ask my mom to give the kids to him that's it. but he have her money to get stuff without telling me...she help him with getting a car after all he did to me...he not wanting my daughter and not been with my kids a full weekend.. I'm been doing everything alone.. I call him and he was that's not of your business.... I don't call his family at all how he is with my kids.. I'm about to give ...
if he wants to be an ass about his child being born, I wouldn't even let him in the room. I was 👌 this close to not letting my man in the room because he kept pissing me off. have one of your guys' parents watch them in the waiting room?