Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Paloma·
Мама сына (2 года)
cant he adjust his weekend incase u do go into labor on weekend. talk to the mother of the kids about how he can get them after all the labor n delivery has happened.
Crystal·
Многодетная мама (6 детей), беременна
The hospital will not allow a child who is biologically not yours to be in the room with you during labor!
Auri·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (21 нед.)
So....sounds like you need to really need to reevaluate this relationship. He sounds controlling and selfish.
Danielle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@manzo2, he wouldn't be able to because the oldest is in school and he is only home for 21 days (3 weekends with them).. and their mom refuses to be flexible and tried to make what the court set a lot more strict then what it actually is.. plus he has family here that could come watch them but he won't call them so that he doesn't have to bring them up to the hospital and he could still go hang out with them because I'm sure I'll be in labor for a while.
Danielle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@snowbaby313, that's what I figured, but I don't know all the rules at this particular hospital I live in a fairly small area they allow a lot of things other hospitals dont.. and @auuuribs too bad I already married him he isn't usually like this, but he thinks he knows it all because he has 3 kids, and because it's my first I should be more open. and I am open if the pain gets unbearable I will leave the option to fold and get the epidural but the kids is my main issue the youngest doesn't even overly come to him she is stuck to my hip while she is here all the time, and I won't handed that we'll in labor I don't want to ruin what I have with the kids because I'm in pain and snap at them.
Auri·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (21 нед.)
He has no right to tell you what to do with childbirth. How annoying. Well, labor does suck, and suck bad. I'll tell you that much. I hope everything works out. ❤️❤️❤️
Danielle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@auuuribs, yeah I don't doubt it sucks but the reward is amazing, and I've kept an open mind to getting drugs to help, because it is my first, but I'd like to say I tried fully before I caved..
pattalee·
Мама двоих (младенец)
they won't let kids in the room for delivery
Danielle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@arijane316, I figured as much, which means he won't be able to be in the room for delivery if he doesn't call someone to watch them.. he doesn't want to hear this from me though.. he took me saying I don't want them there as me not wanting to be around the kids... I'll admit they are little hellyans but it's because their mother doesn't have any rules.
pattalee·
Мама двоих (младенец)
if he wants to be an ass about his child being born, I wouldn't even let him in the room. I was 👌 this close to not letting my man in the room because he kept pissing me off. have one of your guys' parents watch them in the waiting room?