so today I was asked the hardest question I've ever been asked...... "which is more important, the ability for me to be able to walk and hold my bowel movements and bladder or the small risk of complications of baby being born early"( 32 weeks)
thank you so much @baby6aryn for that! gives me hope....why did you have them early?
Dang that's a hell of a question. Talking about a rock and a hard place. I will definitely send up prayers for you and baby. But I can say I had babies born at 31 weeks with nothing but jaundice as the issue. Not saying that there not complications and risk being born that early. But they are doing well, they're 12 now.
@bugmama, yeah..... I'm torn. .... I was asked to go home and think about it
Simply because they were twins and my body doesn't hold babies long. Idk why I can't. No incompetent cervix or anything. My water just breaks and babies come. I have another set born at 33 weeks they were 5'11 and 4'13 they left hospital with me and my first at 35 weeks. weight 7'1. They were (31 weekers) 4'7 and 5'7. I do know I was extremely lucky.