my mil is a passive agressive abusing bitch. she will say something insulting or talk about something that is none of her business and then laugh. like she called me a tramp, says my son was dropped too much, and just all this stuff she shouldn't be saying about ppl. last night at my bfs bday dinner at her house she talked about that^^^stuff and our exes. how do I discourage this behavior? she does it all the time!!!
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I'd get fed up and be like you know what,? this is how I feel. . and unload. don't insult her. just tell her how u feel and leave. don't argue and don't encourage insults. but u deserve to let it out and of she don't like it too bad. just my opinion..
just get up walk into the other room everytime she starts with her mouth
shes wayyyy too comfy talking to you guys like that, have you ever spoken to her about it? sounds like shes the type to flip if you try to have a decent convo with her
She will only do what you allow luv. my MIL use to "try me" and say little things to me when my hubby wasn't around but I nicely put her in her place. I had a talk with her 1 on 1 and let her know how her behavior was affecting me and made it VERY clear that it would need to stop. She still isn't 100% but she stopped doing a lot of the things that annoyed me and put stressors on our marriage. It's sad that most (not all) MIL'S are Monster in laws... I just pray for mine cause everyone needs prayer even when you'd rather wish them far far away to a deserted island.