may 14 @kala_elise

@kala_elise, I sent you the link check your messages the event is next month

@leenasunshine24, I mean about the thing in Oak Park

@kala_elise, you good

I just seen this @leenasunshine24 am I too late? I ain't been on here at all today.

ok

yes please😊 @leenasunshine24 I'm always out there anyway

there's a event going on in oak park they give a way free baby stuff it's a baby shower event you guys want the link @kala_elise @anna432

sorry to here that @kala_elise

@kala_elise, aww you'll have a great experience at HF too they gave me a teddy bear and roses and her hand prints and foot prints.. and dressed her up and took pics she came to early they called and checked on me and everything @anna432

yeah, I wouldn't know how they are now, my kids will be 11 and 9 in May. So, it's been a minute since I been through this... But, my sister's kids are all from 2-6 years old and they delivered at Henry Ford Macomb. We all go to the same obgyn office, and the doctors in that office stopped working with McLaren recently. So, Henry Ford is my only option lol.... But, my mama works at Henry Ford Main Downtown on the transplant floor, (she a nurse practitioner) so she all about all of us going to Henry Ford for any and every damn thing! lol @anna432 @leenasunshine24

well @leenasunshine24 they FUCKED UP my aunts ankle... she's had to have about 7 surgerys bcs her doctor fucked up the first ... it was better when I first moved out here

My daughter's lungs were under developed when she was born and she had to stay in the NICU for almost a week, but they let me stay admitted in the hospital at McLaren for an extra night so I could stay close to her... And the nurses in the NICU made a quilt for her to take home... They were awesome!

I'm delivering at HF

@kala_elise, yeah I had my cerclage put in at St John moross one thing about them thouvh is they are always overly full I couldn't be put in a room . Henry Ford is nice too

they saved my life at McLaren macomb in mount Clemens when I had to get surgery for a cyst they're OK they use to be a little better tho @kala_elise @anna432

I delivered my daughter at McLaren Macomb (the one on Groesbeck) and I'm delivering my son at Henry Ford Macomb... My 2 sisters delivered 3 of my nephews there and had no complaints. I had my first son at St John Moross in Detroit. They have a top of the line NICU and really nice birthing suits.... But, I liked the staff better at McLaren. @anna432 @leenasunshine24

@anna432, my doctor is Kristopher weemes

lol thanks @kala_elise girl my mom was scaring me talking bout death and stuff smh

@kala_elise, we'll it's the experience that makes you want to do it again.

Don't let nobody scare you with their experiences coz everybody has a different level of pain tolerance! I got an epidural the first time and was literally doing crossword puzzles and chillin till it was time to push... But, the 2nd time, I couldn't get an epidural and had to do it natural. In my case, it was worse than normal because my daughter was facing the ceiling rather than the floor like babies are supposed to be when they come out. It makes their delivery more traumatic on mom and baby... She was only 6 pounds 8 ounces, but my doctor said it was the equivalent of giving birth to a 10 pound baby... And, I got pregnant on purpose this time around, so it couldn't have been that bad for me to do it again willingly... Right? lol

but who's your doctor ?

yeah tbh it depends on which one you go to. ..

I heard bad stuff about Henry Ford that's why I don't go there they let my cuzzin aunt die I heard

@leenasunshine24, trust me lol I don't live that far from you I've been to every hospital out here

I went in for bleeding and they are VERY rude I had a mc and they had a bunch of interns telling me my baby was already dead inside of me.... they will not try and help the baby. .. my aunt went there for ankle surgery and when she broke her ankle NEVER AGAIN go to the Henry Ford on 19 and Garfield 😊 lol that's where I'm going

I have pains in my vagina here and there omg wow what have I signed up for

for me, it was pressure in my vagina, cramps in my lower back, painful tightening all over my belly, light period cramps, and shortness if breath

whattttt.... omg really😯😯😑😑😑😕😯😯😯😯

Cramps on steroids

@anna432, why not?

why not? my on deliver from out of that hospital they saved my life before omg why not what happened

yeah you can't explain them @leenasunshine24 it's like cramps x1000.. I cried my first time...and whatever you do don't go to McLaren macomb

I'm a cry baby lol

OK yea I agree everyone handle pain differently

Everyone feels them differently.... And no one will ever fully be able to explain them :/