Soooooooo how long did y'all wait to have sex after having your baby?? Obviously (well I would hope once the bleeding stopped). It's been 3 weeks 2 days since I've had my baby and I am horny af 😂😂
@inkedmomma, it's really not that serious for me to have my appointment sooner.... I'm just having the urge especially since it's been so long. ( not that you cared to know that) but it's just that a girl has needs. Lol
It's encouraged you wait cuz your OB will want to make sure your body is healed and in shape. You also want to wait cuz if your body isn't ready, there can be risk to infection as well. My OB does a follow up at four weeks, not six. So if you're four weeks maybe you can setup an earlier time? I saw my OB at three weeks postpartum cuz I was having symptoms of postpartum depression.
@inkedmomma, is it not okay to do it before your 6 week check up?
Almost four. I would suggest waiting to have sex after your OB clears you to going back to full activity.
From your hormones changing you might be more so dry but otherwise it doesn't hurt when lubercated
My friend said even though she had a c section it still hurt her vagina... @jaixi
We started at 4 weeks but I had a c section so it wasn't like my vagina needed to heal
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
It's understandable. Lol. I was the same way.