I'm all in my feelings right now..could use someone to talk to I guess. since baby had been born me and my husband…
I'm all in my feelings right now..could use someone to talk to I guess. since baby had been born me and my husband haven't got to spend time together(I'm not complaining cause I love my little girl more than anything) well tonight was his only night off, so I got the baby a bath and got her to sleep with the intentions of spending time with him...well, he decided to get drunk and stay on the phone with his buddy from work for 4 hours,then come in and go straight to bed. i decided to sleep on the couch because my feelings are hurt and I'm pretty angry. also, I feel insecure since I've had my baby, 4 weeks ago, like some of my pants still won't fit and stuff. well he's telling me about this married dude at his work looking at women on Instagram and proceeded to tell me that he ain't gonna lie,he looks when dude finds a really hot one and shows him. I know everyone is gonna look, but I mean it's nice to know he can talk about how hot bitches are, and never tell me I'm pretty or compliment me in any way..i could just cry my eyes out right now.
danni·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
that's not right I'd snap. it is natural to look. but that's what I have it guy friends to talk with about not the mother of your bran new baby wtf. that's plain disrespect.
Teria·
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Don't cry hun. First of all he is being VERY disrespectful to not you but your child a well. children feed off of our emotions even outside the wound and we have to try to keep the most positive vibes as possible ! I'm not really sure what kind of "buddy from work" would stay on the phone for 4 hours because normally men just don't have that much to talk about , especially on the phone. Before getting upset I think that you should sit and talk with him about the kind of man that he is becoming and how uncomfortable it makes you. my grandma always said a wandering eye means they're still lookin for something and wtf he looking @ when he has a beautiful woman and child @ home?. its one thing to glance @ other women it's another thing to look with the intent on seeing what other guys do. you're right about your daughter being your world but as a new mommy you get tired to and you didn't make your baby alone so that is unacceptable. Remember that people will only treat you the way you allow them to.
Quanisha·
Sometimes you just need a good cry. Cry it out and pull yourself together. It will take the tension away from your words when you confront him about his lack of affection and sensitivity to you and your feelings. Venting to us helps because we are all women and we naturally console one another. Men aren't as nurturing. Sit him down and help him understand how you feel about the things he does or says and the things that he doesn't do or say as well. Men don't think often so we have to help them see what we are feeling. Express yourself to him. You're beautiful. You're a great mother. You're a great companion. You deserve to be recognized and treated as such. I hope things will get better. You have support from us all. 😘