i just like how when i want to have a baby shower, my moms family takes over and makes it into what they want. and now at this point i litterally have no say in my own baby shower. i cant even consider it a shower now, its more like a cookout. im not happy right now. this is suppose to be my baby shower, not a damn family picnic.
I've been dealing with the same thing from my family my mother in law saw how stressed I was getting and made me put my foot down she's now doing my shower how I want. remember this is your day to enjoy before you have the baby put your foot down if need be girl! here if you need anything
I know how you feel. My Nina is only throwing me one because she threw my sister one when she was pregnant and thinks she'd look bad for not giving me one. She's not even asking me anything or my own mother so my mom is really hurt over it and doing a different one for me that she's actually part of.
you don't need that stress!! I was in the same boat put my foot down because I couldn't handle the stress.I've had a rough pregnancy health wise and it made my issues worse so I had to put a stop to it!