Ughh.. Some days I don't know if I can do this all over again. I was fixed for a reason, I'm 38 I have a 16,14 & 3 yr old-all were very carefully planned. I had my 3 yr old for my husband whom have never had a chance to have kids of his own then I got on the same iud I had for 10 yrs before deciding to have my 3 yr old & this time it didn't work & I was just going to take the abort pill since it was really early but then at the dr's office the heartbeat was detected & of course after hearing that & my husband acting excited & everyone else saying this baby is a miracle & it's meant to be, I couldn't do it.. I will be almost old enough to retire by the time I'm done raising kids, there will be no seeing the world or enjoying any vacations or time alone... I can't help but be depressed most days because he is a truck driver so that I'm able to stay home so I pretty much will be raising 4 kids on my own 😞
Once you see that beautiful face you'll be in love again. 💕 and now your 3 yr old will have someone to grow up with (sibling wise)
I'm so upset my husband just informed me, that my 16 yr. Old daughter told him while I was gone that I was a bad Mom with too many kids, that I was dumb because I dropped out of school, that she wanted to part in meeting her new sister in December. I'm so broken and don't know what to do!
i keep having these weird ahh dreams this time it was about me, my younger sister my younger brother (they are 15 yr old twins) and my mom😔😔😔😔😔
I hate that I'm scared of my own husband.
Make your own breakfast!
At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
I'm really sick of having a hard time finding a job that'll hire me with my availability. Oh and forget about telling them I have kids then they never want to hire you. Pretty sure they don't want to hire me because of my age also. I've never had such a hard time finding a job until I had three kids
I totally know where you are coming from. I got pregnant off of and IUD as well and would have chosen abortion but my fiancé is very against it. I now am very depressed I am pregnant and I feel like this is a miracle I didn't want. I feel bad that I still don't want it and that makes me more depressed. I guess you just have to hold onto the idea that the baby really is coming for a reason and it hopefully will be worth it