A person can only take so much. If you have talked to him before about how you're feeling and he hasn't done anything to try and atleast take a step and solving the issue then there's nothing more you can do. You have to worry about yourself before anyone else.
@mommyx2g, I feel like one though because in the next 2 months we could have had our own place and I'm just leaving, I just couldn't deal with is family anymore. And now he won't talk to me. I don't want my son to not have a father. I want him to be there when he's born but he won't be able to now:(
@mommyx2g, it's not even my SO. It's his family but he doesn't stand up for me:( I don't want to leave him, but until we get our own place I can't do it. So I'm leaving Oregon and going back to Nevada and I really do feel like a failure :(