he dont care he thinks we need to pay him money every time we turn around. he said my man broke his external hard drives. ive told him that im not paying for it and he says YES I AM. I am on disability

I say no too. What's he think about it? Either way I'd remind him that y'all have other things to pay for soon.

I say no, like you said you have a baby on the way.... he needs to grow up and pay for his own stuff....

No. Tell him you won't do it. Why should that be expected of you?