OK.. question, if you are with someone for the sake of the child then would it be wrong/cheating if I had somebody do what he isn't? Like I don't even want penetration or oral but at least help me rub one out, I mean I get him off n get nothing in return.
Aw you definitely deserve better than that :/ I'm sorry! He sounds like a jerk!
@aboutellesbabe, IDK how to talk to him about it bc if I say something I 'have an attitude' n am wrong for voicing my opinion. and I feel the same way about the sneaky part, that's why I needed a second opinion, from an outsider's view.
Would you have to hide it from him? I feel like if you have to be sneaky then you're doing something wrong. But, if it's out in the open then who gives a shit you know? You should stop doing "favors" for your guy if he isn't doing you any in return mama! You should have a talk with him about that!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
You guys can co parent without actually being together. I'm not sure how he feels about the relationship but if you guys decided that you weren't together but will co parent for the sake of the child then I guess it wouldn't be cheating?