ladies who here has a very critical family? yesterday during the Easter get together my sisters aunt and dad wouldn't shut up about how fat i am gettingπ’ made me sooo self conscious! I eventually lost it and told them to stop and they had the nerve to tell me how rude i was for yelling!! i was like WTF you don't stop calling me fat but i am rude?! how do you girls deal with that?! how do you not let it get to you??
I feel the same way my bf's grandpa and his sister tell me all the time & it's like I already feel insecure they're just making me feel more insecure & it's getting harder for me to even touch my food bc all I wanna do is break down and cry
stay away from them. my mother is very harsh and has no consideration for the feelings of others. I call and have short chats with her but I have already made it clear that she crosses too many lines and I am not willing to subject myself to that type of treatment. It's helped a bit.
That's awful! My MIL can be critical and I usually just say what I have to say. They're delusional if they think they can gang up on you with rude and mean comments and that it's fine!