Its depressing having a c-section. Im sorry! I had 3 kids vaginally n i was so happy. I got to enjoy being a mom soooo much! That first month all that i had to worry about was getting no sleep! I had no pain! I didnt have to worry about infections or bleeding or popping stitches like i do now. N now i have puss n bleeding n my doctor said to come in on monday. Reading everything that might be done is scary! I might end up in the hospital getting re-stitched n have to spend a few days there! My baby is only a month old! I dont wanna be away from my baby! Or my kids or my husband again! N once i recover from that i may need to remove my gallbladder. Which means more recovery time. When will i enjoy my baby,my kids,my hubby n my family AGAIN! It feels like i was backed into a corner n forced to say yes to the c-section! Could i sue? I dont know what to do!!!!! Easter plans r ruined thanks to this! 10 months of pain n counting.....
Really I wanted a c section because I feel like if I a normal labor I would die , it's a phobia but now that u mention this I feel like going for the vaginal birth
@angilovesmarti, regular birth is much better for u n the baby. C-sections r dangerous. Its easier to do for the doctor. But in the long run its bad. Natural birth u can still get pain meds to help u n u will feel uncomfortable for about 2 to 4 days after. Sometimes u can feel great once u get sleep right after u have the baby! My sister had her baby in dec. with no pain meds (i was like gasp u crazy!!!!!) but she said once her son came out the pain stopped like right away. It was weird. Only lil pain she had was when the milk came in.