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Kay Figueroa
des_figueroa
Kay Figueroa
Today my sister-in-law had her son. And I'm happy for her but after going through a miscarriage last week, I can't but help feel some type of way against her. Jealously & resentment is what I think I feel. I had to complete my miscarriage, I had to go into labor and get no reward. All I got was a loss baby and hurt. And she gets to go into labor and get her son and family. I mean I feel like a bad person for feeling the way I do but I can't help it..... Anyone ever go through this?....
26.03.2016

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mrscruz0530
mrscruz0530
I had a mc a few years ago on the same day my sil gave birth to her daughter it was heartbreaking for me I was really jealous of her to the point I kind of resented my niece I know it's not her fault but the fact that my SIL was younger than I was and I was 18 I couldn't imagine why it happened to me and she was able to have a baby it hurt me for so long until I finally got my angel baby and it's funny because she was pregnant at the same time our babies are six weeks apart . the only way I can think about it is it was let the right time and I had no control over it and I look back now and think wow I really wasn't ready and everything probably did work out for the best and I'm truly blessed with my beautiful daughter now. your angel baby will come
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anbelle_00
anbelle_00
aw u have to go ..trust me ..u will feel better the moment u see them(and if u get a chance to hold the lil once ..which u really have too) and u will understand ..good luck hun ..feel better:)
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des_figueroa
des_figueroa
thank you @belle_bm15 & @kasieschoch . Today's been rough. crying all day. Haven't even been to them at the hospital yet, I dnt feel like I'm ready. but hopefully tomorrow, I'll feel better enough to go welcome the baby into the world.
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kasieschoch
kasieschoch
When i had my MC about a year ago one of my friends got pregnant (one night stand) and i was so resentful. I remember saying "how come i cant have my baby and she can have a baby...im married and want a baby and she just slept with a random guy and gets to have a baby" i was so jealous! It didnt make sense to me. We started trying to get pregnant right when i stopped bleeding and we got pregnant right away and I gave birth to a healthy little boy 2 months ago! Its okay to have those feelings! Just know that you WILL have your baby! Im sorry you are going through this. Its so hard!
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anbelle_00
anbelle_00
also hoping u feel any better^^
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anbelle_00
anbelle_00
but i had to fight the feeling jealous/envy, but feel happy for their blessings instead ..so it's ok hun ..just think of it as a blessing too ..and jot just for her but foe u too ..trust me it'll help u if u just fight it;)
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anbelle_00
anbelle_00
aww that's ok hun ..I had a miscarriage (at 8weeks ..and it's been 14months since then before I got pregnant again right now) ..then later did I know my two of my close friends were pregnant ..though I honest to God happy for then, I a part of me that was so resenting their happiness and was verry jealous
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