Today my sister-in-law had her son. And I'm happy for her but after going through a miscarriage last…
Today my sister-in-law had her son. And I'm happy for her but after going through a miscarriage last week, I can't but help feel some type of way against her. Jealously & resentment is what I think I feel. I had to complete my miscarriage, I had to go into labor and get no reward. All I got was a loss baby and hurt. And she gets to go into labor and get her son and family. I mean I feel like a bad person for feeling the way I do but I can't help it..... Anyone ever go through this?....

LoveLove, Mrs.M🎀·
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aww that's ok hun ..I had a miscarriage (at 8weeks ..and it's been 14months since then before I got pregnant again right now) ..then later did I know my two of my close friends were pregnant ..though I honest to God happy for then, I a part of me that was so resenting their happiness and was verry jealous
LoveLove, Mrs.M🎀·
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but i had to fight the feeling jealous/envy, but feel happy for their blessings instead ..so it's ok hun ..just think of it as a blessing too ..and jot just for her but foe u too ..trust me it'll help u if u just fight it;)
LoveLove, Mrs.M🎀·
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also hoping u feel any better^^
Kasie Schoch·
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When i had my MC about a year ago one of my friends got pregnant (one night stand) and i was so resentful. I remember saying "how come i cant have my baby and she can have a baby...im married and want a baby and she just slept with a random guy and gets to have a baby" i was so jealous! It didnt make sense to me. We started trying to get pregnant right when i stopped bleeding and we got pregnant right away and I gave birth to a healthy little boy 2 months ago! Its okay to have those feelings! Just know that you WILL have your baby! Im sorry you are going through this. Its so hard!
Kay Figueroa·
Мама дочки (7 лет)
thank you @belle_bm15 & @kasieschoch . Today's been rough. crying all day. Haven't even been to them at the hospital yet, I dnt feel like I'm ready. but hopefully tomorrow, I'll feel better enough to go welcome the baby into the world.
LoveLove, Mrs.M🎀·
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aw u have to go ..trust me ..u will feel better the moment u see them(and if u get a chance to hold the lil once ..which u really have too) and u will understand ..good luck hun ..feel better:)
🎀Jacqui🎀·
I had a mc a few years ago on the same day my sil gave birth to her daughter it was heartbreaking for me I was really jealous of her to the point I kind of resented my niece I know it's not her fault but the fact that my SIL was younger than I was and I was 18 I couldn't imagine why it happened to me and she was able to have a baby it hurt me for so long until I finally got my angel baby and it's funny because she was pregnant at the same time our babies are six weeks apart . the only way I can think about it is it was let the right time and I had no control over it and I look back now and think wow I really wasn't ready and everything probably did work out for the best and I'm truly blessed with my beautiful daughter now. your angel baby will come