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Janine Fuentes
Janine Fuentes
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Up until a few days ago, when I had my daughter, I was absolutely positive that I wanted to get my tubes tied. I'm a…

Up until a few days ago, when I had my daughter, I was absolutely positive that I wanted to get my tubes tied. I'm a single mother of 2 & both pregnancies have been pretty miserable because I went through them alone. I promised myself that I would never go through it again. But now I'm second guessing the decision. I'm only 23yrs old & I don't wanna keep having kids if I'm just going to end up raising them myself. I would absolutely love to go through the experience with someone that I love but I'm scared history will just repeat itself. I'm so torn in between.

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janinee

Janine FuentesМама двоих (младенец)

thanks for the support ladies I appreciate it :) @claire525 @motherof4_galore @luvmyboyz @babymillersmomm I know I'm eventually going to meet my forever person & I'm Ok with being alone for now, I haven't had the best of luck with men so far but I have faith in God & I just have this gut feeling that's stopping me from getting my tubes tied. I think I'm going to follow it.

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babymillersmomm

E JonesВ ожидании первенца

I'd say hold off if you are not 100% sure ... There is someone out there for you ... And technically there is only one "The one" ... All the others are preparation for your special person... Take this time to focus on you and your baby and enjoy life... Try not to get wrapped up in "being alone" ... You have to learn how to be ok with being alone before you can truly appreciate being with someone else ... You've GOT THIS!! Congrats on the new bundle of joy ...

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luvmyboyz

letyМама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Like what @claire525 said. Wait maybe use bc until you have your forever person. Im currently doing my third pregnancy alone also. But i want four children and will have my forth when i get married or in a serious relationship.

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huntersmommy22

MandaKyeМама подростка, беременна (20 нед.)

I would wait you don't want to turn to a permanent decision yet. Your forever person is out there! :)

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