So that's why he's acting like that with you because he's guilty & he's just trying to make you feel bad & that's not right, he's probably all nice now because he realized he messed up, maybe you need to show him what he's missing if you leave but I know it's hard because it isn't just you m,your kids will be affected to. Just take it day by day & hopefully things will get better but I understand if be so mad if now he's acting like nothing happened 😡😤

That's what I said I told him maybe we should take a break and he says that I don't love him if I say we need a break but Idk @mommywhit2

I've been there mama.. Me and my sons father were together for 3 years and when I was pregnant with my son he would always accuse me of cheating and come to find out when I had my son he confessed that he had cheated.. So I packed my shit and moved back to Cali to my moms house and we stayed separated for 2 years.. I dated other people and he dated other people and when both of our relationships ended we started talking again and got back together and things couldn't be any better. It seemed like we needed that time apart from each other to realize that we wanted to be together in the end.. We went thru hell together but now we are engaged and having our 2nd baby together.. Maybe time apart will put things into a better perspective

He was talking to other girls I went threw his fb and his text messages because he wouldn't let me near his phone so one morning I woke up early and went threw his phone and he was talking to like 5 girls and shit but I don't throw anything in his face I put his past behind us and I try to keep pushing us forward and I have told him but he says he isn't doing anything and I told him you don't trust me and he is like yes I do but I don't want you to hurt me like so you aren't over the past but Idk he is trying to play nice now and anything I ask for he jumps to get it we have our days that are good but most of our days are like this and I told him I'm not your babymama I won't play with your bs once I'm gone then I'm gone that's it I don't fall back on my past and that's how I've always been and he knows that I've cut off my babies dad's I can cut him off too but I don't want to do that to him I don't want him to go threw the bs his other babymama is putting him threw he has been there for my kids since they were 2 and 6 they are now 5 and 10 going to be 6 and 11 plus a new baby on the way I just can't threw it all away I love him but I don't want to stress over any of this shit anymore idk if I can feel the same around him I feel like I pushed myself away from him now and it's just like we are together just to be together @yady

You weren't doing anything bad he was probably doing the same thing too, maybe you didn't give yourself enough time to be alone...& You weren't a hoe, guys are like that too & they aren't considered hoes,don't ever say that, you have your kids with you your a mom. Your past dosent define who you are. It's really messed up he holds your past against you but unfortunately guys are like that just like they wanna do certain shit & have you be on with it but when you do it oh my god it's so bad! & it's like why are you mad am just found g what your doing, idk what to say I mean that isn't a way to live it's gotta be tiring & you don't even deal with your exs so idk why he's acting like that with you, I really hope things get better for you have you try'd talking to him about all of it?

I mean when we first met in December of 2012 into January 2013 I was acting stupid but I never cheated that was 1 thing I never did but I did talk to other guys and stuff and hide messages and thing but I mean it was so long ago and I didn't expect us to even stay together for this long to me it was suppose to be like a 1 night stand thing and I has just got out of another relationship right before I got with him like 2 or 3 days right before so I was thinking about having fun and going out and all that shit back then but I mean after while I stopped and I got serious with him and I dropped it all the games the bs all the guys I would talk to my whole past I left it alone to be with him and be happy but it's like he can't get past that and he throws it in my face about who i was back then my kids aren't his I have 4 kids from 3 other guys but none of them even come around see my kids or even talk to them and mean trust me don't judge I'm not shy to say I was a hoe back then I don't need to lie about that I never had the regular teenage life where my mom let me out with friends and stuff so I force all that and I got pregnant at 15 couldn't go out and hang out and all that shit so once I turned 18 I was like fuck it imma do me and he holds my past against me like I'm not like that anymore I can't even stand the clubs or going out late all the time and I'm only 25 so idk maybe I should stay for my kids and my son on the way but I can't deal with the bs anymore @yady

Stay

I mean I understand as far as you trying to st I around for your kids but it isn't healthy for you & the arguing is only hurting the kiddos😐

Sounds so complicated, like you aren't dealing with enough already he's putting more emotional stress on you, why is he even acting like that? I mean it isn't like you ever gave him a reason to doubt you right ? So what's he's problem ?

I know I don't and just minutes before all this he told me I don't want to fight with you anymore like wtf and you start all this it's like all we do is fight but when we are in front of anyone we are the most perfect couple idk if I should stay for my kids and my son on the way or just leave and go somewhere else I told him maybe we need a break and he tells me so you don't love me because you want yo take a break @yady

That's messed up you don't need that stress right now.

That's what I was thinking last night I told him to come to bed with me but supposedly he was up watching movies till 4 am idk I'm just tired of it idk what to do anymore @ktwins188 I go threw his phone and I don't find anything but I mean he can be deleting shit too

mmmmhmm that's mess up he's doing that to you. maybe he's doing something if he thinks ur cheating