Why do all these girls/women wanna get pregnant so bad when they're young and alone and broke..? I don't know about you all but even if we consider ourselves stable enough with money to live, I think you need a lot more financial stability than that to accept the responsibility of having a child. Accidentally getting pregnant and dealing with it like an adult and mom now, that's one thing. But to actively plan it, when you know it isn't going to be the absolute best living condition possible you can provide for your child. Why would you do that?
my sister in law just did this. she openly admitted she got pregnant so she could get government assistance since they wouldn't give it to her without a baby. She doesn't have a dime to her name. won't work, and her boyfriend quits every job he starts bc he knows he can't pass the drug test. heck he just got outta jail for dope. There are so many people that do this and it's pathetic really. Sad situation, but what can u do.
They are trying to fill a void in their life and prob didn't have good parents or a good childhood. Don't judge them. Help and pray for them