so I had to delete my last post cuz I felt like I probably offended some of you ladies, which wasn't…

So I'm not offended at all but everyone is different and Actually if you work hard enough at it in 10 years you can have almost exactly the same body . Had I not cut my hair super short I would look the same as I did back in high school which was about 10 years ago . That is after 3 kids . Now 20-30 years down the road that is when things start changing .

exactly! it's exactly the same when you have kids, if you work hard enough you can have almost the same bady! (:

but then again yes everyone is different @missa7

No offense taken, just voicing my opinion on the matter....every is different and not all of us can get our body back after children lol I was more commenting on other comments who were basically saying EVERYONE can get their body back if they just work hard enough, that's true for some but not all 😊 and that's okay, you gotta learn to be comfortable in your new skin, my new body is different but just as sexy, even more so in some ways 😉 I do agree that your cousin(?) shouldn't negatively blame her kids for her body changing, my mom was grossly over weight, had thyroid disease and diabetes and she always made comments that after the second kid (which was me) her she couldn't bounce back. It always made me feel bad like she was blaming me....I will of course tease the crap outta me girl some day about these stripes and her foot being PERMINENTLY lodged in my right rib for 2 months 😂

Lol I already do actually!😂 when I'm getting dressed and my baby is looking at me like "momma what happened to you"

I'll be like You did this to mommy, and he'll just smile,

like if he was saying "oh momma stop it!" 😂😂

it's so cute,

@hellosweetie and yes I perfectly understand everyone else's opinion on this,

I just remembered I know this one girl you also had thyroid disease she was diagnosed when she was a kid, and growing up she had problems regarding her weight, and when she had her first kid.. well she gained weight like crazy!! but she was so happy with her baby she didn't even care AT ALL! and til the day, she is trying to loose weight just to be healthy not because of her look, she loves it, it reminds her of the beautiful miracle that happened inside of her. But it's been really difficult:/. So yess for some its easy, for others not so easy