all I'm saying is I would def keep a open mind about it I don't know you or you husband or his mom so I don't know your guys situation but my point was if I was in his moms position I would be heart broken. so you can't blame her for being pushy or for acting like a 2 year old.

@mrs.cravens, I respect everyone's opinion, but in all honesty if my son's wife/gf didn't feel comfortable with me in the room I'd respect her wishes. ultimately I am the one having the baby so I should have the say so. if that sounds selfish then so be it.

lmao bye bitch @mrs.cravens

if your sons wife/girlfriend was having his kid would you not want to be in there? you guys all sound selfish and DID YOU NOT SEE ME JUST GIVING MY OPINION IF YOU DONT WANT EVERYBODYS OPINION THEN DONT POST STUFF WHERE YOUR GONNA GET DIFFERENT OPINIONS NOT EVERYBODY IS THE SAME NOW GOODBYE @mama_uhv_4

if you paid attention to the post it clearly says her and her hubby BOTH AGREED that they DIDNT want her in there @mrs.cravens

@mrs.cravens, He and I both agreed we dont want her in the room. He feels just as awkward as I do with his mom in there while I'm giving birth. I understand its a once in a lifetime thing, but she's not my mother and I'm just not comfortable with her being there. I also hate the way she's trying to give us a guilt trip. sorry but I still dont feel its right for her to act that way. @mama_uhv_4 @lilbabyboy16 I agree with you girls, she's a grown woman and should respect our wishes, not act like a child because she's not getting her way.

I agree with @mrs.cravens

if she's gonna act like a 2 year old she doesn't need to be at the hospital anyways. for me I specifically told my husband i do not want anybody in the delivery room just him and i, especially when I have it vaginally when I have more kids. it's just awkward

see I disagree if your husband wants his mom in the room while you deliver I would respect his wishes because that's his baby to. now if he don't want her in the room it's a different story but when I delivered I had my mom my sister my cousin my grandma his mom and his sister all in the room at that moment you really do not care who sees you down there. it's a natural thing they don't wanna stare at your vagina they wanna see the baby be born it's a once in a life time experience and she don't wanna miss her grandbaby being born but hey that's my opinion.

if she wanna be a child and not go at all just cus she cant be in there then thats her problem. she the only one missing out and shell regret it later

That's good, stick to your guns. Mine does things like that a lot to get her way or get people to feel bad for her.

@emilybbyh, oh wow that would've made me mad! I'm sure she'll get over it eventually, my husband is just real frustrated with her because she's acting so immature about it. I'm not changing my mind no matter how much she pouts about it.

If you are uncomfortable don't do it!! I didn't want mine in there with my second but she managed to get in there and I asked her to stay beside me and she ended up walking behind the doctors and took pictures after I said no! They were on my Sil camera and her and her husband both saw the pictures before I did. Its your baby and your body. Once the baby is born and she gets to hold it she will get over not being in the room.

Definitely especially because she is super religious so she wasn't that happy when we first told her I was pregnant because we aren't married at all.

@savanahr777, she's really stressing to my husband she wants to be there for the actual birth and I'm just not comfortable with it. what frustrates me is she's acting like a spoiled kid because its like either she goes for the birth or not at all. I think that's wrong. @countrymama2015 I'm not close to her at all, like I've barely spent any time with her throughout the pregnancy and my husband and I are barely going to be together for a yr. I dont feel comfortable with my business all out there for her to see. I'm sure you can relate.

My personal opinion is its your body your call if it pisses ppl o well they will get over it once they see your sweet baby

no I had my mother and my so in the room and that's it besides the doctors. I'm not close with my soon to be Mil and that's why

Is it possible for her to be in the room but step out when they check you or when it's time to push? I'm kinda in the same situation except my mil has not expressed wanting to be in the room to me only to my husband and I told him I would think about it.