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Rhegan Limbaugh
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How to Handle Unwanted Family Visits After Giving Birth?

1am rant anyone? 😂 just found out that my mother in law is buying a plane ticket to "come visit me and the baby" since my husband is deployed and she lives across the country. No no no. 😂🔫 there's no spare bedrooms in my house and I am not dealing with her crazy ass right after giving birth. Everyone in his family is WAY too involved in my life while my husband is gone. I will be that bitch who keeps my son away from them. They are chain smokers and drinkers and I won't have my son around that!! She wasn't even going to ask!! She was just going to show up!! 😡😡

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family boundariespostpartum stressunexpected visits

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sam.g

Sam G.В ожидании первенца

At a minimum, I would say that she needs to get a hotel room.

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mommy431

TeresaМама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

@rheganolivia, isn't that how it always goes? Thinking we are the psychotic crazy ones when in reality we have our shit together lol! I hate that so much they are good at pointing the finger at us but never to themselves

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rheganolivia

Rhegan LimbaughВ ожидании первенца

@shayyliynn, his mom wanted me to live with her while he was gone! I tried it. I lasted two weeks and I thought I was going to kill her. She told me all of the things SHE was going to do with my son and that I wasn't allowed to do anything I wanted 😅. I'm sorry about the deployment. It is definitely the worst thing I have ever gone through!

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rheganolivia

Rhegan LimbaughВ ожидании первенца

@renny_rayye16, his family thinks I'm the crazy one 😂🔫

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missing561user

missing561user

Yea I think you should wait, we are about to go through a deployment in a couple months too and I told him I'm not staying here and his mom got mad!

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hilarysheraye

💕RayyeRayye💕Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

I understand girl 😊

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rheganolivia

Rhegan LimbaughВ ожидании первенца

@shayyliynn, if they hadn't been so awful to me my entire pregnancy I would consider it. At this point I wanna wait til my husband gets home in July so I don't have to see his family alone. Ya know?

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missing561user

missing561user

Despite how mad you are don't do that because I almost did it, let your child enjoy both sides of his family

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