told my baby daddy I want to see his phone records of his text log since a couple days ago he…

I believe you don't have trust issue

@hayhayes1, If he's got nothing to hide then he shouldn't have an issue with it. You're justified, I feel, because you have some type of doubt or suspicion.

Has he given a reason for you to feel as if he's not being faithful?

I feel if he's hiding it or won't give you it something could be up not necessarily cheating but looking at stuff he shouldn't be ever time I felt something was up in past relationships with phone and password issues there was

He changed his password on his phone and I told him to log onto it and he said no. and wouldn't let me get into his phone. and kept asking why. @krista0811 @s_r_z_15 @ilyric @mrsmoore he said he'd let me look at his phone records of his text log so idk. he told me the reason he didn't want me to see is because he was talking shit on me. but I feel like it is something else idk.

maybe he said really mean things out of anger but I'd personally would want to see for myself talking shot to who would be my question and what was being said ,I hope it's nothing if it is its his loss

Don't waste the time if he refused to show u weather or not he was talking smack who cares he has to be hiding something. I would tell him never mind I don't need proof and move on bc if he does it now he will do it later.

@mrsmoore, well I threatened to leave him...if he didn't give me the password and he didn't give me the password...

@txyogagirl, he told me talking shit was 1 of the 3 reasons he didn't want me to have his phone and idk what the other 2 was but what if it was about getting me an engagement ring or something.

@mrsmoore, @txyogagirl well he is wanting to show me his text log records on his phone so if he was venting to a girl I'd know. but I just idk. I told him nevermind and he insists on showing me

text logs aren't going to show that he was talking to someone on kik or any other social media, so of course he'll be OK showing that.

@ilyric, didn't think about that. ugh idk what I should do.

I'm not saying he's doing anything he shouldn't but just incase be careful what you ask for if your truly not ready for the outcome if he is. I hope everything is ok though

@ilyric, is right. I'm sorry @hayhayes1 it's just not fair for u to stress when u already have enough to worry about with a new baby. For me I would weigh my options and see what he does for me besides be my man. Also the time u have invested but then again I may not be the best person to ask it took me almost 10 years to let go and let God take over my relationship and took 8 years with the same man before I would commit to marriage not bc he did something wrong just because I don't trust any man no matter what obviously I trust my husband finally now after all these years but I will never ever ever let my guard down completely bc women r stronger single or at least I am and have faith that u could be too. Hopeful it's nothing but usually it is he is a man. Men just think different