@jhussey, I would be mad if my husband did that he tells me not to worry bc I have had a rough pregnancy and I'm 37 weeks so I should be doing as much but it's like yea but I'm the one that gets looked down on bc I can't work it's got to a point a few weeks ago I was crying

YES. My fiancé always says "you don't need to clean" like I'm gonna leave dirty dishes in the sink and not vacuum and dust so people think I'm a lazy pregnant woman! Right! He always waits to tell me his friends and their wives and kids are coming over until the morning of... How dang convenient.

I clean even if my boyfriend comes over.

Yea my husband's side will just start picking up the house then I can't find things and one of them will talk trash about it and I do the same thing @bellahali be I clean b4 and after

Clean, entertain, then clean after them!

Yesssss...this is why I don't want visitors when my baby comes. I'll just be more stressed out because my house isn't clean. My family talks MAD trash about people who don't clean their house, so it's even more for me to deal with...let alone just having a newborn and a toddler to take care of.