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mommaree213
Ann-Marie
Okay, so I've got a question, but before I ask, I want to give a little background before people get defensive and what not. So, I'm 19 and my baby girl is 5 weeks and a day old and her father (notice I said father and not dad or daddy) is now 20. He's seen her twice since she was born (we haven't been together since the beginning of the pregnancy) and he hasn't even texted to check on her. He isn't on the birth certificate because since we weren't married we had to go through a process and he wasn't around for it. He's got a new girlfriend that he's been datin for a little over a month, she's 18 and still in high school and he's livin at her house with her parents. Anyways, he's been posting on facebook how important my daughter is to him and how he loves her so much and a bunch of stuff, but he hasn't seen her in 3 weeks and hasnt made any effort in wanting to see her or acted like he even cares. He just enjoys the attention he gets on facebook and trying to make me look bad. He doesn't even care that he isn't on the birth certificate but I dont think he realizes that means he doesn't have any rights. But I dont want to tell him, because I dont want that to be the only reason he wants to be on there. He obviously doesn't care much. But my question is, do I have to let him be put on her birth certificate? I'm not tryin to hide who her father is, she sees her other family and we all get along and they all apologize about him and everything, so I'm not one of those "baby mommas". I hope this makes sense..
23.03.2016
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mommaree213
mommaree213
I've been told by quite a few people that he doesn't have to be on the birth certificate for him to have to pay child support. I'm not going after him for child support if he isn't tryin to see her or be in her life, but he is tryin to get disability and if he gets it I know whether he likes it or not she will get a check and he wont have a say
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wyatts_mommy_0106
wyatts_mommy_0106
He can take you to court yes but he has to pay the fees and he can pay a lawyer if he wanted to but to be put on the birth certificate he has to pay for a DNA test and then that will lead to child support for him so do what's best for your baby but with him not on the birth certificate he has no rights at least that's how it is in fl.
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liveitwithlove
liveitwithlove
Also, in Kentucky, if he isn't on the birth certificate, that's not even his child in their eyes.
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missing82user
missing82user
Yes he can take you to court but to be put on the birth certificate he'd have to have a paternity test done. I think he would need a legal aid or pay fees if he doesn't have one. I'm not sure of the process, but I think it could be a drawn out one. If I were you I'd just keep going without telling him. He's going to act how he acts.
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mommaree213
mommaree213
Ive been trying to breastfeed but ive lost a lot of my supply and nothing, not even nursing seems to help
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mrsmoore
mrsmoore
if you breastfeed he can't ever have the baby taken or even have weekends if it were to get to that point
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mrsmoore
mrsmoore
@mommaree213, he will have to pay court fees he doesn't really need a lawyer, he will also have to pay for paternity testing in order to be placed on it also that would lead up most likely to childsupoort,I would keep quiet about it let him act how he wants you know the truth that's all that matters
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mommaree213
mommaree213
Can he take me to court over it? and if he does take me to court will he have to pay a lawyer?
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missing82user
missing82user
Absolutely not. Do what's best for your daughter in your mind.
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mommaree213
mommaree213
He isn't. He isn't doing anything except acting like daddy of the year on facebook. He hasnt done anything to help or anything at all.
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liveitwithlove
liveitwithlove
He absolutely does not have to be on there. That is up to you. Unless he is paying child support, that's a little different.
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