update- my Dr did another membrane sweep just longer and harder this time. I'm between a 2 and 3 (been a 2 for at least 4wks). he didn't even think I'd make it to 38wk but this child of mine is stubborn. so if she's jot here by Thursday I go in for an induction. he's going to give me cervidil which is inserted like a tampon and he recommends it for first time moms. I'm kinda scared though. I didn't want to have to be induced and I've heard it makes things drag out and more painful
i had cervidil it wasnt bad:) they did 2 doses of cervidil (i think its every 12 hours?) but im not sure. then i had pitocin. i started cervidil friday and had her at 3:22 am Sunday. i was 35+4 being induced since she was in the 3rd percentile for weight had a two vessel cord and severe iugr (intrauterine growth restriction)
I was in preterm labor for 3 days stuck at 5cm. when I developed preclamscia on day 3 I was induced with pitocen and bag of water broken. after that took only 15 hrs for her to be born which is pretty quick
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
What time should I make my fiancé son go to bed tonight ? (He is 4)
Does your baby father tell you what time to be home like have a curfew ? Because really I'm not a child and I'm not going out drinking or partying it was a child play day and unplanned so of course I didn't wash the dishes if I had known I would of cleaned in advance and cooked but seriously he took it too personal saying I'm in the street all day and it's the last time I do this really do I look ten years old to him ?
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
Just so mad at my husband before we moved he promised he would put our son to bed at night and get him his bottle. Then promised that on the mornings he doesn't work or the ones he works later he would feed him breakfast so I can have my relax time before having him all day long. Then every morning he is here he says he's not going to get him breakfast because he doesn't want to and sits there telling me to go make and feed our son breakfast. Then every time I remind him of his promise he rolls ...
I didn't want pitocin and he thinks cervidil is easier for first time mothers. but I guess I might have to have pitocin also? I'm not exactly sure I didn't ask any questions because I was a little upset and overwhelmed. I've been having contractions but nothing hospital worthy. I hope I'm dilated a little more at least. technically I'll be 40wks tomorrow 😧😧 I'm scared she's gonna be too big but honestly we don't really know. he did an ultrasound at 32wks and she measured 34wks but he said those aren't always accurate.
okay yeah I know every one is different so I know Iight react differently but it's still scary to me just everything I know and have been told.