Starting to feel like my husband rather hang out with the neighbors than spend time with me or his children, even after me being gone for 3 days. And subsequently, becoming very anxious about having two little girls to care fore when I'm left on my own so often. In many ways he is a fantastic, loving, and caring man. Lately he just has been very absent and I am left wondering what I did to cause it :( Approximately 5 more weeks till we meet Baby Phia and I desperately need to get it together.