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would I be a bad mom if I hired a babysitter overnight for my newborn? I'm so tired I have an exhaustion migraine and I…

would I be a bad mom if I hired a babysitter overnight for my newborn? I'm so tired I have an exhaustion migraine and I have a 2 yr old so I can't sleep when she does and every time my fiance promises to watch them so I can sleep he never does and I need some sleep. I feel like a bad mom for saying this.

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leighannmommy

MelissaМама двоих (младенец)

I chewed him out and I got an extra 3 hours of sleep before I was up and down and he made a comment my mood is a lot better. I told him my headache went away. he was like all I needed was sleep to be nice so maybe he'll start listening to my needs when I ask

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deannamae1_13

DeannaМама дочки-младенца

you have to take care of yourself first to be the best mom you can be! don't feel ashamed for having to take care of yourself

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mommagotbump16

HeatherМама сына (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)

:( So sorry hon. I get migraines too, and I've had to get someone to watch my son while I slept. Any family or friends that can watch them?

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leighannmommy

MelissaМама двоих (младенец)

I'm so frustrated

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leighannmommy

MelissaМама двоих (младенец)

it wouldn't be so bad if he do like he said and let me sleep an hr or two when he gets home or when he's off but he doesn't. he promises he will but doesn't and he's in bed asleep by 9 or 10 and I'm up all night I'm maybe sleeping 2 hrs a night chasing a 2 yr old all day I'm so tired all I wanna do is cry and I don't even have the energy for that. I'm running on fumes and monster energy drink my head is killing me and I'm getting sick but heaven forbid I ask him to let me get sleep. he promised and he just said he's going to bed after saying he let me sleep a bit

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mommagotbump16

HeatherМама сына (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)

No, not at all. Do what you have to so you can take care of yourself and your babies!

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?