would I be a bad mom if I hired a babysitter overnight for my newborn? I'm so tired I have an exhaustion migraine and I have a 2 yr old so I can't sleep when she does and every time my fiance promises to watch them so I can sleep he never does and I need some sleep. I feel like a bad mom for saying this.
you have to take care of yourself first to be the best mom you can be! don't feel ashamed for having to take care of yourself
:( So sorry hon. I get migraines too, and I've had to get someone to watch my son while I slept. Any family or friends that can watch them?
it wouldn't be so bad if he do like he said and let me sleep an hr or two when he gets home or when he's off but he doesn't. he promises he will but doesn't and he's in bed asleep by 9 or 10 and I'm up all night I'm maybe sleeping 2 hrs a night chasing a 2 yr old all day I'm so tired all I wanna do is cry and I don't even have the energy for that. I'm running on fumes and monster energy drink my head is killing me and I'm getting sick but heaven forbid I ask him to let me get sleep. he promised and he just said he's going to bed after saying he let me sleep a bit
No, not at all. Do what you have to so you can take care of yourself and your babies!
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I chewed him out and I got an extra 3 hours of sleep before I was up and down and he made a comment my mood is a lot better. I told him my headache went away. he was like all I needed was sleep to be nice so maybe he'll start listening to my needs when I ask