So my bday is coming up on April 5th. I'm gonna b 21!! My bday is on a Tuesday so I'm gonna spend it with my babies and husband. But that weekend my husband and my step mother in law want me to drink with them. Yea I really want to but I would feel bad if I asked my mom to watch my kids so I can drink. Like I feel horrible just posting this. I don't really ever get a "me" day. So Ik I need it but is it bad parenting? From your view would u think I was a bad mother? Just looking for opinions. I won't get offended. Please let me know.