So my bday is coming up on April 5th. I'm gonna b 21!! My bday is on a Tuesday so I'm gonna spend it with my babies and husband. But that weekend my husband and my step mother in law want me to drink with them. Yea I really want to but I would feel bad if I asked my mom to watch my kids so I can drink. Like I feel horrible just posting this. I don't really ever get a "me" day. So Ik I need it but is it bad parenting? From your view would u think I was a bad mother? Just looking for opinions. I won't get offended. Please let me know.
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I celebrated my 23 rd birthday I NEVER go out since I had my daughter I've been out once and I cried when I left her lol I felt soooo bad. but once I had a drink I started to have fun and glad I went out its not bad if you get out once in a while everybody needs me time once in a while :) your only human
I totally get what you're saying . I'm the same way I hate seeing mom's post about how they're drinking everyday. but it's not like you're gonna be going out everyday & every night or every weekend drinking . have some fun & don't worry you'll still be a great mom :)
@cierab, @spacekitty0426 thankyou sooo much lady's :) I've always been the one that hates seein moms post pics all the time of them out drunk and stuff instead of takin care of their kids and that was the first thing that came to my mind wen they asked me to drink with them. But thankyou for the piece of mind :)
no way girl, have some fun and don't feel guilty. its totally cool to celebrate your 21st birthday! and I hope you do, its important for us to have guilt free personal time. oh and I hope that people here are nice about your question. no judgment😀
I plan on going to have a drink on my 21st birthday . there's nothing wrong with having a you day . as long as your not out every weekend or day drinking around. it's not bad parenting at all
You can celebrate your 21st and not drink of it makes you feel that badly.