So me and the father of my children aren't together anymore but he still comes and spends the night . My boyfriend I've been dating for 2 years on and off is now back in the picture and he doesn't want my baby daddy to spend the night but whenever he spends the night it's for my oldest daughter. And my oldest daughter has called my boyfriend daddy the other day and her father was pissed idk what to do anymore
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Very odd arrangement it sounds like. Maybe the two of you need to have a discussion about the issue of old partners being around if you plan on him (the boyfriend) being in the picture long term. As far as your daughter- she's gonna call whomever in her life whatever makes sense at the time. Problem will be when parents raise the issue in front of her. My parents had the same issue 30 years ago with me. My mom got upset and didn't want me calling someone else mom and I ended up choosing in the end and did it anyway (unknowingly as I was young).
@rgaine, but my boyfriend has a daughter by another girl and she is always around so like idk how to feel anymore
I'd decide with the boyfriend- that's really awkward and weird that the old guy still spends the night- even if you do share a kid.
I mean every family is different so I guess if he does stay the night, only have him in your daughters room or front room and have your bf over too. and really your bf can't make decisions because your daughter is between you and her father, so if that's the type of relationship you have, you guys are cool then your bf kind of just has to accept it and trust you.