I don't understand how some men can complain that they are too tired from working to help with their child or children. in our home my boyfriend is home more with our son & i work everyday except 2 days a week sometimes 8 or more hours. i also ebf when home & pump so he eats when I'm at work. i always find the energy to take care of our son. i don't expect his father to do everything. I'm not trying to talk down to anyone but i just don't understand how you don't wanna spend every minute you can with your child. i hate not being with him.