Okay, I need support. I am not someone that shares a lot or over-reacts. I'm in the medical field and usually quite rational, but I'm panicking. I lost a baby a year ago because it was ectopic and my anatomical ultrasound was abnormal with my current pregnancy. This was the same time as everything happened last year. The ultrasound technician was good with everything. I had been worried about my little girl as I just don't feel her move as well as I did my son. The ultrasound tech said my placenta was forward so I might not feel her as well--put me at ease! Then my doctor texted me the next day and said not to worry but let her know when a good time is to talk. They found cyst in the choroid plexus of her brain--very common I've found and usually resolve. BUT apparently she's measuring in the 20% percentile--so small. She's sending me to a perinatalogist next week (Wed). She's not overtly concerned because my Trisomy 18 was neg but wants to be thorough (false negatives I'm finding can be anywhere between 3-15% depending on which article you read). Low percentage but my ectopic happens in 0.5% of all ectopics. My rational side says just wait and see, I can't do anything about it. But my gut has me super worried. I've had a lot of loss the past three years and I think I'm paranoid that when life looks like it's picking up finally I'm might loose this baby. I think I need therapy! Lol. Just need some support here. Thanks ladies sorry so long.
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Prayers for you and your baby ,and like the other ladies said try not to worry too much since that will stress you out ,even though I know it's hard as a mother not to, put yourself in the hands of God and he will give you the best results ,I'm not just saying this but I went through something similar as well
Praying all is well with baby & I can understand your worry, I miscarried last year but keep positive and what a blessing for another pregnancy & try to focus on that... Hugs sent to you ❤️
I'll be saying prayers for you and baby
Honey everything will be alright just don't worry to much because then you will stress yourself out and stress is definitely not good for your baby . I'm praying everything is fine so don't worry just relax
My baby girl does not let me do anything all day 😭 I'm lucky if everything is done before my s.o gets home , she cried so I pick her up to feed her and change her diaper and once she's on my breast she eats and I burp her put her down and she'll cry I get her again and she's on my breast not even latched on just smelling my boobs 😭 I'm like girl really lmao she wants me to carry her or be with her all day , girl I wish I could lmao
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So far all is well. She's small on percentile but otherwise normal. We monitor her size every two weeks, but all is normal and her cysts resolved. Thank you everyone for listening and support!!