After 5 miscarriages, ttc for 7 years, a divorce, new marriage, and finding out your new husband is sterile. I'm beginning to think I'm not supposed to be a mom. it sucks so bad because it's the only thing I want in life. everyone else I know is all happy and have their families. hell, we tried foster care and adoption but the state is an ass and denied us because my husband is in school. so here we are, have a brand new nursery all set up because foster classes told us to, have all these things for kids newborn til age 7 and I'm sitting here broken hearted with empty arms
it's not fair! we don't have the money for private adoption, for ivf/iui and I've tried 3 donors. I'm tired of trying. I just want to wave my white flag.
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:/ what if you got a surrogate and excuse me if I sound dumb but she signed over her rights you care for the child till you can legally afford to adopt?
@karicomstock, it's all roughly the same price as private adoption with the surrogate. we don't have that kind of money just laying around.
@kaya815, what would be the issue with adopting the child? other than the fact that that's dumb as hell that I'd have to adopt your biological child
@mommy529, last time I checked with state laws even tho its biologically my child, I would have to adopt it from the surrogate. unfortunately due to something that happened several years ago
I'm so sorry. :/ I'll pray for you!