No. Go for it! My hosts refused to let me plan mine, so i planned a separate one in my hometown where I got to do it my way.

Nope

no. I planned my own.

I would just ignore her and anyone else. Ain't no negative vibes in my circle lol, y'all can miss me with the bs. I'm even like that in my house with my bf. I would rather do certain chores so they get done right.

@mommytobesari, im doing the same exact thing! I like things the way i like them lol my mother in law gave me shit about it and said "who plans their own shower" so it made me question it.. 😒

No I don't think so! I'm sure someone would've wanted to plan mine but I would rather do it. Mind you I'm only 11 weeks lol, but I like planning ahead. That way if something gets messed up, I know it's on me. One of my best friends is hosting and helping me out with everything though.

I am helping with my shower

no. I'm planning my own buts that cause my mom and grandma were waiting till the last minute so I took things in my own hands.