If I don't give my baby up for adoption my baby's father will leave me

Then let the bastard leave

So it's him or your baby. I think the choice is clear.

Sounds like a real winner.

I agree let him leave!

well, good riddance!

I would say bye there's the door. and then have him sign his rights over.

So what? That baby will put more joy into your life than that man ever has or will. I promise. Don't do that just because he says that. Honestly a lot of them say that and change there're minds once they start seeing you show or have the baby. Baby girl please stay strong

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I would tell him goodbye because no man will ever come before my baby. that's just my opinion @kelsicutie

Bye Felicia ✌🙋 from the looks of your posts he's an idiot anyway!

mama, he doesn't deserve you or that baby... I would say "see ya, bye!! don't let the door hit you in the butt on the way out"..... stay strong mama

Do not give your child up for a man! That's going to mess you up emotionally. He clearly is not worth it! He won't always be around forever but your baby is ALWAYS going to be your child no matter what! Don't let him make you choose between him and the baby.

Don't let him make you choose! That's your baby! You don't need him to be an awesome mom!

There's one thing that im just ganna say... Keep your baby..

his loss. he's not worth it but your baby is to have you as its mother

see ya! my ex did the same. first he said he would if I didn't have an abortion and he didn't talk toe again until I was 6 months pregnant. Then he said he would never talk to me again if I didn't give the baby up. I had my son and HE IS AMAZING!!! I also met my husband unexpectedly shortly after I had him. God takes care of you hun

leave him asap!!! you don't need him you and the baby will be fine

I can tell you one thing, the moment that baby comes out you will be SO in love, it will feel like nothing in this world has ever mattered and nothing ever will. That baby will change your life. The very second they come out. You won't even have to make a decision, the choice will be clear. So even if you wait all the way up until birth to decide, you won't really have to decide. It doesn't feel real sometimes until the baby comes out, but I promise you, your heart will be fuller than any man could ever make it.

Let him go . No man should come before your child . If he really loved you he wouldn't make you choose .

And when you give the baby up and he STILL leaves you? That's guilt you'll never get over if that's not something you want and you do it for him. A man is never forever, no guarantees. Your child? The most genuine and unconditional love you will ever experience! Do what YOU want and what's best for your child not him!

then leave him baby is more important

do not let him make that decision for you. you do what you feel is the best. you don't need him. especially someone who is going to leave you for that!

Then peace out dude!!

that is ridiculous

Let him leave then. His lost not yours. Dont ever choose between a man and your child. Much less letting any man feel like you have to make a choice when it comes down to your life.

Damn drop that dude. I know that is easier said than done but if he says he will definitely leave you if you don't do a certain thing instead of supporting the decision YOU make then he is not worth it

Cya homeboy

yes please don't ever choose between your child and a man. if you've decided to keep the baby this far then you obviously care about it. my mother left me for a man and she apologizes every day but deep down I don't know that I'll ever truly forgive her even tho I say I do.