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Am I the only one that doesn't make a big deal when my husband doesn't go to my appointments? He goes to the…

Am I the only one that doesn't make a big deal when my husband doesn't go to my appointments? He goes to the ultrasounds, but not the OB appointment, he doesn't want to see the doctor checking me, which I understand. but I don't see what the big deal is in having your SO go unless its something important actually happening, not just a check up, or your high risk.

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octoberbaby16

Brandace

Мама четверых детей

I don't want my hubby there but he insists on it. I find it dumb

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paisleysmom

paisleysmom

Мама двоих (5 лет, 8 лет), ждёт третьего

my fiance hasn't gone to one appointment, just ultrasounds. he's asked me if I wanted him to go but I mean why would I make him take off work to go for a checkup that takes five minutes. he won't get paid that day! he's taking off for a week when I have her , and he's not getting paid for that time off.

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missing108user

missing108user

Мама троих детей

no I don't really care he just goes to the important ones like ultrasounds & the glucose test & once I get closer to delivery he goes with me to each one just in case. but other than that I don't really mind him not coming with me.

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marikss

Mari

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@octoberbaby16, lol I honestly don't feel comfortable talking about vaginal stuff in front of my husband, I know it sounds childish, but he doesn't like it either. @paisleysmom exactly, and they usually just say the same stuff everytime

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marikss

Mari

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@aek91, mines only goes to ultrasounds. he's only been to one or two apps and that was with Sammy. but he says when someone doesn't go then the doctor usually brushes you off with your questions than when someone else is there asking too.

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paisleysmom

paisleysmom

Мама двоих (5 лет, 8 лет), ждёт третьего

yep @kelseys I go and she asks if I have questions, does the Doppler and that's it, hour drive back. and now she does my exams to check for dilation . he'll see enough of them poking at me when I go into labor!

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reaganmommy2015

Martee 💋💋

Мама троих детей

My husband never went to any of my appointments for my last two pregnancy

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missing108user

missing108user

Мама троих детей

I've had the same doctor for 8 years so I mean she's pretty good now with me & my questions. The only reason he doesn't go is cause he works 2ND shift so he's sleeping in the mornings but I mean they appointments right now are kind of pointless you go & they do the same things until you get closer then it gets more exciting.

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annettasmommy

Alix Adams

В ожидании первенца

the only one I really wanted my husband to go to was the anatomy scan the others I really didn't care if he went or not.

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mommabearto2

📛 Justine

Мама дочки (7 лет)

My husband went to all of my appointments with my daughter 7-8 years ago but now he just asks me if I would like him to go. Since he works 7pm till 7am for another month. I don't see the point of him losing sleep for my doctor to go. How have you felt this past month? Any questions? Okay see you in 2-4 weeks. He just went when we were seeing what the gender was and that made him so happy but besides that. Doesn't bother me none.

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destiny05

Destiny

Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет)

My husband has only gone to the anatomy scan & that's about it doesn't bother me because he doesn't go because he's working...this is our 3rd child so too me I'm ok going on my own...

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firstbaby_girl

Jenna

Мама дочки (1 год)

My husband went to all my appointments except like 2 because of work . Half my pregnancy I was high risk and the rest I wasn't.

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perfectpeach

A.🌙✨

Мама дочки (2 года)

It meant more when mine went with the girls but since I don't have as many u/s this pregnancy I don't really care if he comes since I know they are boring going over the same stuff each time.

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?