guilty feeling.

@izner14, because someone who loves you would do things for you simply because they love you. They would never take what they've done for you and throw it back into your face and try to make you feel guilty. And no he isn't right at all. My husband does all that stuff for me, but it's because he wants to. Being a stay at home is a full time job. You're staying home, having his baby, taking care of the house and kids, making appointments and so on. You could go out and work just as he does, sure but you don't need to when you're taking care of house and home. He needs to appreciate you too.

@floress_j, maybe this is why I have breakdowns sometimes.. I feel emotionally tired and really sad. and I can't explain it to him why.. or what is wrong.. I am so lost that I don't even know what is right and wrong..

@brittlangdon22, it hurts to hear but he's right..

@brittlangdon22, I wish he have said it that way.. 😳 but he pointed his fingers on my face says that I'm just staying home he's giving me everything doing everything feeding me providing me taking care of me..

I'm sorry but your husband isn't reminding you, he's trying to make you feel guilty & that is never okay to do to your SO. It isn't okay because that will destroy you mentally, you dont want to end up feeling like a failure or like your not good enough for him because you will eventually bring yourself down & eventually feel worthless. That is why it isn't okay.

@raegenice, how is it not okay??.. can you explain it for me?. he told me he's not really nagging me for it he's just reminding me..

I don't think its okay. My husband is the provider and I stay home with the kids and when he gets mad at me he says I provide for you and this family and give y'all everything and you don't do anything. But anyway a man should never hurt a woman physically, mentally, or emotionally.

someone that loves you and cares enough about you doesn't throw what they've done for you at your face that's why it makes you feel bad. if it were okay then you would reason with him and it wouldn't bother you like it is. that's just him making you feel low and that's never okay to do to someone .

@mypregnancy_journey, it's not?? I am so confused now why is it not okay?. I mean what so bad about it? he really did those thing for me.. but for some reason it hurts so much inside to hear those things..

No! That's never okay. Don't accept that from him.

no, it isn't okay.