Ok ladies, maybe tmi but.....since I got pregnant my hubby won't go downtown. ..he will have sex with me but I'd like a little foreplay before we do the deed. I still go downtown but no reciprocating . I know he's tired from work but I still need to be taken care of. How do I go about this without hurting his feelings or making him upset?
Lol if you think about it, that makes sense, normally when he looks up he sees the face of his woman. While your pregnant all he sees is baby, for some men that's a huge turn off. Maybe he doesn't want to risk losing the moment and completely losing his ability to perform. I know my husband was extremely weirded out by my belly lol. Last trimester sex was nonexistent. After I gave birth we talked and he confessed everything. Don't hold it against him, baby won't be in there forever ;) @scorpiomom84
So he said it's because of my belly (not in a bad way) I was like ok well it doesn't effect you when we are having sex...he's said it's hard to explain. now I'm more confused than before!!
Yeah, your best bet is just asking him. Vaginal discharge increases during pregnancy getting thicker, idk about the taste but with the increase in hormones I would guess that's different too. If he won't go down while your pregnant maybe suggest a toy? Like a clit vibrator or something. Lol being pregnant doesn't make you dead from the waist down, female parts need love too :)
last pregnancy he was iffy on any kind of sexual anything...at least this time I'm getting something..lol. yeah I am going to ask him and see what he says.