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Kate
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So this has been weighing on my brain. My boyfriend swears he would never cheat on me. My doctor said BV is not an STD;…

So this has been weighing on my brain. My boyfriend swears he would never cheat on me. My doctor said BV is not an STD; however, most websites say men can carry it. I have been with him for 6 months and this is the first time I have ever got it. I'm nervous he picked it up from someone else. He has never given me any reason to believe he was/is cheating other than getting upset when I talk to my exs (his previous ex cheated on him). Why is this crossing my mind...he's never sketchy about his phone, he's never cheated from what I know, he doesn't have a Facebook, he doesn't act like he's hiding anything...am I just being insecure? I could use some advice and opinions please!

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amber188

Amber

Мама подростков, ждёт третьего

I've had it a handful of times and my doctor finally said "amber stop washing your vaginal area with soap" lmao so I only use summers eve know maybe 3 times a week or after sex and haven't had it since ! but she's right you might call ur doc and see if maybe he should take antibiotics cause every time I got it go away I kept getting it back partially from my fault and because men can become carriers if exposed too many times lol its so weird.

mrsgower

Kate

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I'll try that if I get it again! Thank you

telliey

Chantel

Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (15 нед.)

It doesn't mean he's cheating, but you could ask your doctor about him getting treated too. It happened to me, got BV back to back for months, the meds gave me yeast infections so I was miserable. The doctor told me what could be happening is that we were passing it back and forth which is plausible because they normally only treat the woman. Ask your doctor. It might help. It worked for me and my husband

bianca_rose

Bianca

Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (29 нед.)

I've had chronic bv since I was about 20, I'm 38 now. I have to use a suppository 3 times a wk just to not get it so don't worry, it's your ph not him cheating. And ph gets so thrown off while pregnant

mrsgower

Kate

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Bacterial vaginosis

emtackett

emily

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I feel kind of stupid but what's BV ladies?

emily18234

Emily

Мама подростков

Hahaha when I got BV I thought he was going to think I cheated. the doctor wouldn't even name what I had because he was in the room. she just said "you have an infection, BUT IT IS NOT AN STI" and she said it like 100 times. like way to make me look guilty woman hahah. When we left, I Google the drug and found out it was for BV and I was like "seriously?!?! she couldn't have just said that??"

mrsgower

Kate

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Thanks everyone! My insecurities and fears have taken over now that I'm pregnant..it's just ridiculous

missing82user

missing82user

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You're pregnant, bacterial infection is common from BV to yeast infections. Even if you weren't pregnant. It's just an imbalance of good and bad bacteria/bad PH. Usually happens in women who are young and sexually active but it isn't an STD. Men can carry bacteria but I'm sure they can't get BV, their bodies don't have the right environment.

arijane316

pattalee

Мама двоих (младенец)

You're more suceptible to getting it during pregnancy

mrsgower

Kate

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I have some insecurities from past relationships...he's a great guy and I'm really not sure why I'm feeling this way

ameiliaashlyn2016

randi

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i got it from using scented soaps around 13 weeks

mommagotbump16

Heather

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (27 нед.)

It's really not sexually transmitted, but if you're this worried, your instincts could be picking up on something going on.

missing330user

missing330user

Мама сына-младенца

I had it during pregnancy an I was married.

crixxy

Crissy

Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (21 нед.)

you can get it from anything like swimming in unclean water... scented soaps all that

domxtwo

domxtwo

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)

Bv is like a yeast infection

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